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this are what I learned recently.

about LIE and FORFIVENESS.

 

When people lied, it's not important about what he lied but WHY he lied.

what's the reason behind his lie?

and what's the reason why he couldn't tell the truth?

 

Is it so frightening about the consequence of telling the truth?

It might make him lose something which so important to him after telling the truth?

 

the only person who take your lies is the one who trust you.

 

what's done is done.

Nothing have done can be hidden for good.

 

about  FORFIVENESS.

 

most of time "sorry" is quite meaningless words. 

you want to apologize for something you've done just like say sorry to a borken plate on the ground.

sorry, can't change the fact that you already broke something or hurt someone's feelings.

 

so why peole should take your "sorry" and forgive you?

 

"forgiveness" might the bigest gift you can give to people you concern very much.

when you forgive someone it means you chose your relationship with him/her  above your anger or wounds. 

 

you CHOSE to forgive rather than cutting off this relationship. 

 

and I'm always really appreciate to those who chose to forgive me.

 

 

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